i'm new to the whole "detailing" thing....used to just washing and an occasional wax. but since getting my mo i'm starting to get into my car's appearance. heres my question: can somebody walk me through the order of steps of a good wash to wax? including clay barring and polishing when do you do these before/after wash or wax? never used a clay bar before, but heard it does wonders. do you wax and polish or are they the same thing? i know this is alot but like i said this is new to me.