Just an observation I've made over the last two years with this 2021.. . whether driving or parked idling, as soon as the RPMs go above 2000 for a couple of seconds the seats get very hot. I started noticing that everytime I accelerated fast up a long hill the seat would become very toasty, and concluded that the alternator spinning faster during that time was likely creating a surplus of power that the power-hungry heated seats system was able to take advantage of.
I've driven for miles under 2000 RPMs and could never figure out why the seats weren't even really warm yet. They needed more power.
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I've been following your issue.
Normally, an electrical circuit carries a steady voltage. The one thing that can change an electrical circuit load is resistance.
To me it sounds like you're having an issue with the grounding circuit for your seat. Something is causing an impedance that's being overcome by utilizing more amps.
Does the passenger's seat react the same way? Do the back seat heaters work or are they the same?
I would check three things.
The plug under the seat. Unplug and inspect for proper contact marks on the metal tabs. Feel the plug while you have the seat set to high and the seat is heating up. You should not feel any heat at the plug itself. If you do, you have a contact issue at the plug.
The switches that control the seat heating and cooling. Check the plugs at your switch for heat while the seat is on high. Swap the two switches, one might be having a high resistance issue, preventing full power to the heater elements.
Locate the common ground point for the seat heating circuit and verify that all the wires are solidly tightened down.
Sorry I can't help you more.
Good luck.
Have a good day.