The silver looks better with the painted silver wheels. It would be overkill with the chrome. The chrome would look fabulous on the black. The chrome wheels clash on the some of the other colours as well. There is no right answer.
I look at the painted wheels on my 2K Max and keep thinking I'll get them polished, if I keep it. The car is sunlit sand and has chrome accents (GLE), but not one touch of silver anywhere. The wheels look out of place.
But I think I'll get a copper Murano instead... SL, not SE. I like the new style of cloth interior. The charcoal almost looks like suede. (I presently have leather in the Max) I also like the 5 spoke wheels better than the SE's 6 spoke. I'd get the chrome (polished aluminum really, aren't they?) wheels, if they were available here, but I haven't seen them yet.
If you want to look a little flashier, the chrome either a) looks upscale and classy, or b) looks really cheesy and trashy. I'm not sure which, and it depends on the mood I'm in!
We all have opinions.... Mine changes from day to day!
I do agree the younger people like the chrome more... I'm 44.