FYI, it was too difficult to get a wrench or socket on that nut due to the angle and cramped quarters. I can get a hand w/fingers up there, but angling a tool the correct way was really tough. I'm not convinced the 2021 even has a nut to secure that bracket. It felt more like a rivet-like thing or a screw that screwed in from the back into a threaded hole. I didn't feel a nut or threads on a stud. My inspection mirror's batteries were dead, so I couldn't get a look at things.
In any case, no more chime...forever, apparently, unless I opt to replace the entire chime box. Here's why...
I found that pressing in/down on what I thought was a release tab (a tab I couldn't [and didn't] actually see) did nothing to free the connector, so I robustly pulled the connector straight down and it came off. Looking inside the connector I saw no wires or contacts/pins, just a piece of clear-white plastic. Inside the chime box connection, I saw nothing but a piece of clear-white plastic. Could I reinsert it and have the chime work? I don't know. I think the wires might be silver single-strand after the copper wires enter the plastic connector.
@Wade , I'm curious to know what your 2019 connector looks like. Do you see any wires or contacts/pins inside, or just a piece of plastic? I don't plan to ever sell my car, and I don't like the chime, so I don't care if it ever works again.
I have a feeling the connector may only be able to be inserted once and then can't be removed without breaking the fragile inner contact plate. I think it's possible each surface (the male end and female side) is coated with one part of a bonding agent that, once mated together, fuses the pieces. If you try to remove it, the fragile clear-white contact plate breaks in half. I didn't see any piece break off of the outside of the brown connector, and I didn't see a tab release. Something isn't making sense about the way it came apart and looked afterwards.
Incidentally, when I removed the connector water poured out of the wire harness casing. Lots of water... Makes me wonder if it's possible that water is able to make its way into the cargo area or under the cabin carpeting (especially when braking fast or driving down a hill) and the water finds an exit point inside. Maybe that's why some owners have been unable to find the source of their interior leak. Maybe that one open-ended wire harness is to blame - at least in some cases. Look at the first picture below, and keep in mind that connector's harness opening points upwards, meaning it can catch and retain water. I'm not sure what the harness looks like further forward. Maybe it becomes tightly wrapped and less tube-like so that water (and insects) can't make it into the cabin.
If you don't like the chime alert but want to retain the ability to have it work again later on (for example, if you plan to sell the car) then you might want to slice the wire harness casing back six inches to expose the two chime box wires, then cut one (or both) of them and cap or tape the ends. Later on, you can always rejoin them and the chime box will work again. With what I've done, I'm not sure I can reuse the chime box because something within the connector may have snapped off internally, meaning I'd have to buy a new one and do the procedure outlined in the service bulletin
@MuranoSL2003 provided above.
I'm going to try to think of a way to use those wires. Maybe install a strobe light under the bumper so that when I open the hatch it will flash while opening and closing. Not sure how many amps I've got to work with there, though. May not be enough juice to power a light. It might be fun to hook up some kind of device that produces a female voice exclaiming "Hatch activated!" whenever you open or close the liftgate.
What I'm interested to learn is if the inside alarm will still sound when I drive with the rear hatch open, or if the system now won't be able to detect when the hatch is ajar. That detection could be tied in to the latching mechanism.
I placed the old connector in the finger of a nitrile glove, taped it up, then taped that harness to another harness inside the bumper to prevent it from flopping around.