Ok so I double checked the 46 brown wire and it is NOT losing voltage when button is hit. The starter control relay socket does have 1.5 volts at pin. I can’t say for certain but there is definitely a click near that starter relay area
Damn. So, it looks like the BCM is not grounding the starter relay circuit after all. I'm not sure what that 1.5 volts on the starter control power socket is...that circuit does also connect to the IPDM, which I suspect is a sensing wire so maybe it's residual voltage from a transistor in there or something. There is no official testing procedure for the starter control relay outside of tests that can be run from the factory scan tool (CONSULT-III) since Nissan doesn't consider that relay serviceable even though you can physically remove it.
I think you're going to have to go right to the BCM and confirm that voltage from the starter relay is present and you can also test for voltage coming from the stop lamp switch while you're there. Unfortunately, you'll have to remove the instrument cluster to get to the BCM. You can find the procedures in the "Meter, Warning Lamp, and Indicator" file and "Instrument Panel" file (for the cluster lid) of the service manual:
https://www.nicoclub.com/nissan-service-manuals
Voltages at the BCM should be as follows with ignition switch on unless otherwise noted:
Terminal #47 (Ignition Relay Control; Blue Wire): Battery voltage w/ ignition in OFF or ACC; 0.0 volts with ignition in ON.
Terminal #52 (Starter Relay Control; Red Wire) : Battery voltage in P/N; 0.3 volts in any other gear; 0.0 volts with ignition OFF.
Terminal #118 (Stop Lamp Switch; Blue Wire) : 0.0 volts with foot OFF brake pedal; Battery voltage with brake pedal DEPRESSED.
Terminal #140 (Start Relay Power from TCM; Green Wire): Battery voltage in P/N; 0.0 volts in any other gear.
For Terminal #52, also measure voltage while trying to start the engine (foot on brake pedal and push-button start) to see if voltage gets pulled down to 0 volts indicating the BCM is grounding the control side of the starter relay.
This is a time where it's really useful to have a scan tool that can read body codes. I'm pretty sure there's some fault codes logged in the BCM that might be helpful in troubleshooting.