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17K views 64 replies 40 participants last post by  clarkandrew45  
#1 ·
Just explaining why I haven't been around for about a week and why I may not be around for quite awhile.

This is a letter I sent to my Email contacts:

Our daughter, Kimberly Felknor, lives in Dallas.
She is in RHD Medical Center, Intensive Care Unit (ICU)
Please DO NOT SEND FLOWERS, BALOONS, ETC.
The ICU will just throw them out.

On Friday, December 30, she went back to the Dr who had been treating her for Influenza since Dec 27. She was feeling pretty bad of course, and had a ragged cough.
He gave her a prescription for Cough Medicine and gave her the usual Lots of fluids and rest.
By mid evening though, she was feeling very, very bad.
She went to the ER.
They admitted her with Pneumonia.
The full title is Bilateral Pneumonocal/Streptococcal Pneumonia.
By Saturday Dec 31 noontime she was feeling better (massive antibiotics)
And called us to tell us she was in the Hospital (Rm 522) but was OK and would likely be discharged on Mon or Tues (Jan 2 or 3).
We sent flowers.
By Saturday evening, we had been called by her friend Debbie, who told us Kim had been moved to the ICU “for superior monitoring purposes”, but that she was probably going to be alright.
We booked a flight the next morning to Dallas.
On Sunday afternoon we arrived in Dallas and went to the ICU.
The situation had worsened.
She was now in very bad shape.
Her White Cell count was down very, very low.
We talked briefly to her, but she could hardly talk, since she could hardly breath.
The Drs determined that it would be best to sedate her and place her on a Ventilator (breathing Machine).
Later that night they decided that she needed to be put into a deeper state. So a “Paralytic” was administered to put her into a coma.

At this time, she is in septic shock, cannot breathe on her own, and has perhaps 10% of her lungs functioning. Although they are not calling for a fatality, neither are they willing to predict survival.

Because of certain criteria, she is being administered an Experimental drug, Xigris, which can only be administered in life threatening situations, but which has had very good results in early trials.

At this point they have done everything they can and it is up to God.

The most likely scenario is that she will survive, but be in the Hospital ICU for at least a month and then, if she is sufficiently out of the woods, be transferred to a Rehab Hospital where she could spend a month, 3 months or even 6 months. No one knows if this would allow complete recovery.

I know all this sounds dire.
But this is where she is at this time.

We have returned to Ft Myers and we will be closing our house up and moving to Dallas for the duration.
We anticipate leaving Ft Myers Tues morning.
A million details need to be attended to such as our Drs, Financials, etc.

We ask our friends to have patience with us as we are not operating at our highest efficiency right now and could use your prayers and understanding.

And we absolutely will not resond to every Email.
We will be very busy for sometime.


Thanks.

Homer and Edna
 
#3 ·
God bless you, Edna and especially Kimberly. I will keep her in my prayers and I will hope for a fast recovery.

Bob
 
#4 ·
Stay strong my friend, and your family will be in my prayers.
 
#5 ·
Our prayers are with you.

-njjoe
 
#6 ·
Homer

Nothing can be said to make the situation better. Just know that you and your family will be in our prayers. We ask God to give you and your wife strength and to heal your daughter completely.
 
#7 ·
Our prayers are with you and your family....
 
#10 ·
Homer,

Words cannot describe my deep sympathy to you and your family…..wish Kimberly speedy and complete recovery.
 
#11 ·
Wow...

It's fascinating how you can really develop friendships with people you've never met. My eyes are tearing up, I'm very worried about a friend's daughter. A friend I've never met.

Homer, She's certainly in my prayers and I'm not a man who does a lot of praying, but I sure will for her.

I'm sure it's an extremely tough time. I have no idea if there's anything I or we can do, but if there is, just say the word.

Jim
 
#12 ·
Sometimes it's hard to keep the faith, but with others around to support you it becomes a bit easier.

My mother-in-law had sepsis a few years back. She was also given a drug that was experimental at the time and she pulled through because of it. She is now 84 years old.

We are with you and you are in our thoughts.
 
#15 ·
Homer...

Homer, our prayers are with you and your family...
 
#20 ·
Homer, I am saddened by your news. I like the rest of the org will stay on station as your extended family. Our thoughts, prayers and good wishes are with you, your wife and daughter.
God speed.
Bob1
 
#26 ·
My grand Ma is going through the same exact thing. But she also has really bad asthma. Shes been in the hospital since early December. She caught pneumonia twice since then IN the hospital recovery rooms. They put her back on the Ventilator. Shes 82 how old is your daughter? I that all works out for your daughter and she completely recovers.


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